7 Reasons Sisters Are the Best Ever

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If you’re fortunate enough to have a sister, you know that the bond between you is so strong, almost nothing can break it. Let’s look at all the amazing ways that having a sister you’re close to will change your life for the better.

Just an idea, but before we go any further, why not do something nice for your favorite sibling? Maybe make her a sweet treat like an Orange Creamsicle Pie or a batch of sweet Citrus Blossom Cookies. She’ll love that you thought of her!

Studies Say Having Sisters Makes You A Better Person

7 Reasons Sisters Are the Best

1. They help each other dial back the crazy. They are a sounding board and a trusted advisor for one another. Having someone to support and encourage you on the regular is as good as a big dose of medicine sometimes.

A study at Brigham Young University in Utah found that “sisters seemed to help siblings avoid negative emotions. Those adolescents with sisters were less likely than those without sisters to indicate feeling lonely, unloved, guilty, self-conscious and fearful. It didn’t matter whether the sister was younger or older, or how far apart the siblings were age-wise.”

2. Sisters help reduce the likelihood of divorce. Okay, so we all know having a sister doesn’t take divorce out of the picture for us. If only. But, it’s interesting to learn that for every sibling a person has, their chance of divorce drops by 2%.

Apparently, all that quality work sisters do (known as fighting) makes us better at working out our differences with a spouse.

3. Sisters help each other be better communicators. Makes sense seeing as how sisters tell each other absolutely everything. Those late night sisterly talks about all the things that are important in life prepare women to be more open with their life partners later on.

4. They are second moms. When they each have kids, the other steps in and becomes a default bonus mom for her sister’s children. She is there when they are sick, or for their celebrations, and she’s right there for all mundane things like learning to ride a bike or tie shoes. Speaking of aunts, read all the reasons we think being an aunt is so wonderful.

5. Sisters are low-key gangsters. Anyone who messes with one sister will feel the wrath of the other. Being in that line of fire is not a place anyone should ever want to be.

6. Sisters fight. Sisters make up. The content of the fight will be forgotten by the time they are eating cheesecake and laughing. Who else can say that?

7. Sisters show up. Whether it’s 3 AM or in the middle of the workday, sisters will always answer the phone. They never have to face sadness or fear alone when they have each other.

What’s the one thing that makes your sister so awesome?

Brag about her in the comments and then for sure share with her so she can read all the good things you have to say “behind her back.”

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193 comments on “7 Reasons Sisters Are the Best Ever”

  1. I don’t know what i would do without her she has been there for me in everything and our life has been hard

  2. I hate to make you all jealous, but I indeed have the Best Sister Ever! Everyone loves her & wishes she were theirs! The only downside is that I know if I ever lost her I would completely fall apart.

  3. Nancy vercammen

    What an enjoyable sweet article that I think most all agree with. Our kind Father who made us gave us all the things we need, Him being our number #1 need. Thankyou for posting this precious article and your lovely recipes!

    1. My sisters have always been amazing Christian siblings for me, to cheer me up, redirect me, give advice, be honest, hug me, but most importantly love me. These 3 sisters are the best I could ask for in my life, thank you❣

  4. I have 2 sisters – one older by 4 years and one younger by 2 years. My younger sister and I were more like best friends growing up. We told each other everything and we fought about everything. We played sports together, went out together, and shared a room with each other for 13 years. I still love her very much and when we get together we have an absolute great time. My older sister was more like a mom to us since my mom worked so much. She could also be as mean as a rattlesnake to both my younger sister and me but she was also a fearless protector. NO ONE was allowed to mess with her 2 younger sisters (except her). She was an awesome big sister and paved the way for my younger sister and I growing up. Because of her antics as a teenager, my mom was too tired to worry much about either of us!

    1. You describe me and my sisters perfectly. I am also the middle sister. It’s the best position to be in. You have your older sister to look up to you and your younger sister to boss around

  5. Cynthia Klein

    I never have had a blood sister but the good Lord gave me the most wonderful ‘adopted’ family. This family accepted me as one of there own,. By the grace of God I have a sister that means the world to me, plus a spare. I also was blessed by the most wonderful women who treated me as her own. Unfortunately Mom just went home to our Lord and Savior on Christmas Day. I thank God everyday for my sister.

  6. I have 2 amazing sisters. I am the oldest then there is my sister 4 years younger and my baby sister 11 years younger. Our parents raised us to enjoy being with family and we have continued that family togetherness whenever possible. I am the only one of us with children. My youngest sister was like my own baby and she calls me her bonus mother and she is like an additional sibling to my four kids. She is a free spirit and jokester. My other sister has been like a bonus Mom to my kids. They celebrate my grandchildren and support them in their life and endeavors too. They have both gotten me through some hard times in my life and are there for me, my husband, kids and grands whenever needed. I am truly blessed to have them and could not have chosen better myself! Love you Patty and Michelle!

  7. My sister is my hero. She and I are only 13 months apart. She is 62 and has had my 87-year-old mom living with her for the past 18 years. Not only has that been a huge sacrifice, but my sister is now fighting Stage 4 Ovarian cancer which is now in her liver, and we are in miracle territory as there are no treatment options available because of the number of tumors. She also deals with a neurological disease which affects her muscles, nerve endings and balance. She continues to work fulltime and tries to stay positive. Because she and I understand what her prognosis is, we are able to share and laugh about some things that others might not understand. I pray for her healing, but we both know that might not be on this earth. Do we still have different points of view or get on each other’s nerves, but in the end, we will always be there for each other.

  8. I was struggling to except another big change in my life.My “Sissy”simply said”It’s not the last stop on the train of life”.I think of that all the time.It helped me focus on the journey which I would never want to take without her.
    ❤️:)

  9. Lucky to have two older sisters. One is far away, but it is nice to know that she has all my family in her special prayers. My closest sister is one of the pillars of my side of the family. She has come a long way and I am thankful for her time with us. She reminds me that God doesn’t give us hard tests to endure if He knew we where week.

  10. My older sister Eydie is my only sibling and there are hardly words for what she means to me. She has mothered me, nursed me, coached me, pulled for me, pushed & encouraged me, she has counseled me, and helped me to be the special kind of person she is. Someone who will go above and beyond in any situation to make sure you’re healthy, happy, and prospering. She is an ultimate Boss Babe holding down both her job and her household with Class and style. She’s crazy busy, but never too busy to take my calls.  To say I love her for everything she is, is an understatement. 

  11. Nice content and thoughts that everyone can follow through. And I agree that it reduces the case for divorce through sisters help and guide.

  12. Don’t know what I’d do without my sister. She always has my back.  I only have one but she is all I need.  She listens, gently guides and is always there for me. I love her so much. Only wish I was physically closer to her. I’d do just about anything for her. Can’t wait to hug her again

  13. My Sisters are always there for me and always will just like i’m always there for them
    when they need Or want it, I love them and they love me I know they do. Kisses~Lily. 

  14. I have FOUR sisters so I am truly blessed! Each has her own personality of course – we have a nurse, a law clerk, a jokester, a retail specialist and a professional recruiter. The talents of these women are many but mostly, they just make me laugh.

  15. Margaux Hunter

    Wow that article really hit the nail on the head! Linda, Rachel, Norene & Kathy – sister’s are the BEST!!

  16. I lost one sister to cancer and as hard as that was it brought my other sister and I closer. I can talk to her about anything and she always listens and is never judgemental. I enjoy her company and feel a bond that is unlike any other. We have been through good times and bad but have been there for each other. I love her with all my heart.

  17. This is so awkwardly true. I say this because even if I have no one else to turn to I can always turn to my sister! No matter time of day or night. It’s those late nights that are most memorable both ways even ehen she calls I’m up whether 4 pm or 4 am! I’m blessed to have such a great sister and friend, always there for good, bad and even those ugly we won’t mention or incriminate ourselves lol 

  18. I think this may be true if the sisters are raised to respect each other and to be loyal to each other. If the parents foster too much competition, or show favortism, then this is less likely to be true. 🙁

  19. Shannon Derfler

    I am the youngest sister of OUR FAMILY. All of MY SISTERS and BROTHERS are half SIBLINGS. TOO ME THEY ARE ALL WHOLE BLOODED. I love them all COMPLETELY NOT JUST HALF!
    God Bless all of OUR SISTERS and (yucky) BROTHERS!! ( lol j/k). God Bless all!

  20. My sister is the Best! Awesome Aunt too! She is always there when I need to talk and will do anything if I ask her. I love her so much, couldn’t ask for any other sister ❤️

  21. I have a baby Sister who means the world to me. She came to me after 3 Brothers, and I can’t find words to Express my LOVE for her. She is such a SWEETHEART!! I LOVE YOU KATHY!! ❤‍♀️

  22. I have 3 sisters. They are mean and deserve each other. They can only be friends with 2 sisters at a time and talk crap about everyone. They help others with strings attached. When my mom died they shunned me because they think honestly who knows what they think. So yes sisters make you a better person. They have taught me what I don’t want to be and how not to act. 

  23. Valery Lawton

    My Sister is very wise, she can come up with a plan to fix anything, she is a JESUS GIRL, and she is BEAUTIFUL

  24. Rana Griffin

    My sister ALWAYS holds me down. She is the best friend a girl could have. She is truly the BEST!!!

  25. Arica Sutton

    I agree 100% !!
    My big sister is my inspiration, she has never let me down and would give her right arm for me! Talking about feeling grateful I think of her! I love you Sister!!

  26. Patricia Shea

    Valantines Day 2018 my dying sister Denise (who I lived with and cared for) sent a friend to the store to buy me a Valantines Day Card. In the card my sister wrote how grateful she was to have been my sister, thinking me for all our adventures, and how I broadened her life intellectually and emotionally.

    Denise had received a card from someone we considered a sister in which the friend summed it up perfectly : “I would not have missed a .mile with you.”

    Women often don’t value relationships with other women. I celebrate the women in my life now and those that passed. My sister and son taught me what love is. Lucky me.

  27. This is so true! My sister is my ROCK! We’ve come through a lot together. She’s always there for me and I am for her! It’s just the two of us and we never had any other siblings. She is 5-1/2 yrs older than I and we are as different as night and day. However, we don’t even have to say anything to know what the other is thinking….we just “know”! I knew she had breast cancer before she did. I just “knew” it and made her go to the doctor! I would be lost without her and am thankful for her beyond words!

  28. I recently found TWO sisters in the last year and while it is a bit of a white-knuckle ride, i can say i would not trade it for the world! I have no regrets and i think they make me a better person having them in my life. I feel happier.

  29. Vicky Lindsey

    My two sisters, Deb and Julie, have helped me through the trials and shared in my Joys!  I’m so grateful God blessed me so much with them for my sisters! 

  30. I only have one sister but she is truly my best girlfriend ❤ I can’t imagine not having having her in my life. Sisters are a blessing and precious treasure!

  31. Carol CalderTate

    My sister is the most awesome sister! She is the most loving,,caring,sharing,giving person I know. She has always been there for me and our family. Donna “compassionate” Calder should have been her given name.    She is a whirlwind of good deeds and doing good. Her heart is tender and she is quick to extend help. My life has been made more colorful, beautiful, and blessed  because of her presence.   Her life is a gift to me.I will love her always and be thankful for her!

  32. I was adopted so raised an only child but in 1997 my birthmom found me and I learned I have 4 younger sisters. I later learned it was my sister Patti who pushed our mother to find me. Guess 3 sisters weren’t enough for her. Lol! It’s been 22 years now and I love my sisters dearly. I have a special bond with Patti. She is truly one of my closest friends as well as my sister. I love this article and find it very accurate. Patti is battling metastatic inflammatory breast cancer right now, so this has been been devastating for the family….my family.

  33. I have two of the best sisters in the world, both live in Texas so I get to see them often,,
    I feel so blessed ..

  34. Bethany Harrelson

    I have 4 sisters. They all are the best. I could call any of them for help and they would do anything to make whatever I need, happen. And you were right, I could tell them my worst secret and they would not judge. No matter the time between visits, we can pick up where we left off. Sisters are the “Cats Meow” for me.

  35. My sister is AMAZING!! Always there when I need her, never negative, always encouraging positive options and shes a prayer warrior! I love her guts!!!

  36. Ashley K. Upshaw

    My sister is my best friend and often my voice of reason. Her love is like none other and I pity the person who ever tries to come in between us. I love that girl like crazy! She’s literally my biggest cheerleader and my kids love her even more than I do!!!

  37. This arrived on a day (14 months since losing my big sis to cancer) that I was missing her ever so much. Knowing I will see her again in the Lord’s Kingdom isn’t helping much today.

  38. I am the youngest of 7 sisters. The older we get the closer most of us become. I don’t know what I would have done or where I would be if I didn’t have my sisters!!! They are truly my best friends!!!! I love you all.❤❤❤ Plus I also have 3 step sisters with whom I am still the youngest. We have only seen each other 2 times in the last 40 years, the last time being only a couple weeks ago, but we have kept in touch, and hope to see each other more often. I love all 9 of my sisters!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  39. Kathryn Christensen

    I am the middle sista and so very blessed to have two people 3 including Mom who love me unconditionally. All the change, challenges, joys and sorrows are shared with this very special bond❤

  40. Carolin Serino

    My sister, Christine Updyke is the kindness more generous person I know. In addition to that, she is loyal and always puts  others first.  My life would not be the same without out her. As my big sister by 5.5 years she was always 
    Patient and kind and never ever was annoyed by her adoring clinging little sister. She will always be the most important Kerstin in my life. 

  41. My sister was born 4 days before my first birthday, 361 days apart (my bday is 3/1961)..just realized the numbers matching. Haha. Shes in California and I’m in indiana. We dont miss a beat in each others lives thanks to technology. Love her so much.

  42. My big sis Shannon is the only one that has experienced the same emotions, fears, and experiences. It was a rough time growing up with divorced parents and a horrible abusive step father. We know each other’s life story through and through. No one understand me better or loves me for me than my sister nor I to her. She is my one!  We hated each other growing up but it was until our 20’s that although we were very different then, we are exactly the same now. We almost always show up wearing almost identical outfits. The party doesn’t start until the other one shows up!  Forever my best friend!  I am blessed and don’t know what I would do without her. 

  43. My sister is my very best friend, my biggest fan, and always has my back. I couldn’t do this thing called life without her ! She’s the best there is. I love you Jillian Kohl Horton !

  44. I have a twin sister and she is also my best friend. We share everything together. We are always there for each other and our kids. No matter what time of day or night if one is needed we are there. We have worked many jobs together and as of today we work together. It’s so special to be with her everyday. Yes we do disagree on things but we never stay mad. I love her with all my heart.

  45. Samantha Roberson

    My sister Trish has always been there to listen to all my rantings no matter how boring or even crazy things may be, ever the supportive one she is and I love her so much for it! We’ve both been through some pretty hard times over the years and I wouldn’t know what to do without her. I love you sis!!

  46. I am blessed with 2 sisters and 2 sister-in-loves (laws). I would not change one moment with these amazing women! They have always been there good times and bad. The most memorable is when I lost my 21 year old son and could not function..they took over and handled everything..they continually share my journey and laugh, cry and vent with me. There are not enough words to express how blessed my family is because of the kind, loving and funny women! Love them to the moon and back!!

  47. Pamela Williams

    We appreciate the success of one another! We help each other financially, emotionally, etc and most of all we all have to take care of our brothers!!

  48. My sister is my bestie. My rock! I love her. We didn’t get to really bond until we were late teens but we always had a mild bond and an urge to see one another whenever we could. We have different moms but same dad. We never lived together. I couldn’t do life without my sissy!!!

  49. my sister is the most annoying person I know, besides myself of course. however, as we got older our relationship began to flourish. and I am extremely grateful and proud to call her my sister. Love you issy.

  50. I don’t know what I would do without my sister. She is my rock, sounding board, and just around great person.

  51. Life without my sister would have been dull, boring and lonely. I was blessed with a sister, 14 months younger, we were more like twins. We did everything together as kids and we love each others kids like our own. Our brother was born with Cystic Fibrosis, we loved him and took care of him like he was our own child. I could not imagine the mess I would have been when he passed, without my sister.
    Over the years we have helped each other get over the hard times together. We have never let anything like a silly fight come between our love for each other.
    If anyone hurt my sister, they had better be ready for my wrath! And that goes for gossip and lies, I would not stand for it. Luckily my sister is as sweet as they come, and no one with any sanity would want to hurt her.
    We lost our mother not too long ago, again she was my anchor. At 57 I am the oldest person in our family and her precious granddaughter is the youngest at 4 months. When I pray, I thank God for my beautiful sweet sister, as I plead with him not to part us from each other for very long when he comes for us. My life would be dull, boring and lonely without her.

  52. Sisters are the very best it’s having a built in best friend. And definitely someone to tell you when your off your rocker cause you know they love ya. 

  53. This is all true, and I see it all the time with my children. There is nothing as wonderful as my children with each other, but the closeness of sisters is even more intense because the have the same life experiences as women. That gives them understanding and empathy.

  54. Cynthia Durieux

    All 7 points I have experienced with my baby sister! We are 16months part, in our early 50s live in the same city, call and text daily see each other as much as possible and can honestly say, my life would not be complete if she was not “Bibi, Gorda Sistaa” Most of all it’s my mother who created this bond, golden rule and n my home, where one daughter went the other must follow, no questions ask this was just the rule. This has carried to adulthood, I moved her from Ca to Tx I have her close to make my life balance and complete. I love my sister !!!! 

  55. Angelia A Betscher

    My life was forever changed when I was 9 and my sister was born. First a new baby girl to the family, my own baby to hold and mother – better than any babydoll I ever owned. Then, a tween to “mother”, as if #nuffsaid. Working hard to become her friend, she partied with me and my SO at 18 and now so many years later, she’s my bestie! I love her with all my heart, bossy qualities and all! #mysisterJenisthebestsissyever

  56. Devanie Zamora Sanchez

    I am blessed to have one amazing, beautiful, younger sister, whom I look up to. I regret not being a good big sister to her. Probably one of the only regrets I have in my life. I didn’t start getting along with her until I was pregnant with my first son @ 16 years old. It was then that I started to appreciate and love her deeply. Now at 34 and her 30, I can not see living my life without my sister, my best friend, my other half. I love you seesee! (Raeanne Zamora)

  57. I have one sister. We are nothing alike but fit so well together. When she needs to be strong I can depend on her and when I need to be strong she knows I will be there. She is my best friend! We can be sad but always end up happy just because we have each other to make things better!! Love my sister!! 

  58. We are sisters, yes us three, without each other, we would not be, the strong, the smart, the crazy sometimes, always there to lend a hand. We are sisters, yes us three! Love to both of mine.

  59. Patty Cruz & a Nancy Warriner

    My sisters are loving & caring, we love spending time together, listening to the good, and sad things, and we laugh with each & at each other, we feel not right when we miss the time we usually spend together, we are friends, and the love we share is like no other,  the laughter & tears brings us closer & blessed, love my sisters!

  60. My sister Julie has always been there for me. She sjpports me in everything I do she believes in me. Ahe is my best friend and confidant I can tell her anything she may not always agree with me but she always has my back. I love you Julie Ann

  61. I have lots of sisters and we love being together, we live in different states but stay connected and plan family gatherings fishing in Alaska, celebrations in Hawaii, Birthday parties in Denver, family reunions in Idaho and Utah. My sisters are my best friends and each one of them has special talents, humor, love and laughter when we are together. 

  62. I was so blessed to have 8 older sisters.  They are the reason I am the person I am today.  Each of my sisters also became a mother and best friend to me over time.  They were my role models for everything, my values, courage, compassion towards others, what it takes to be a good mother,  strength even in the worst of times, the power of trust and faith, how to cook and bake like a pro, loyalty and the importance of being self sufficient to ensure your family is always well cared for.  Most importantly was their unconditional love.  Others come and go in your life but a sister will never leave you.  No matter how unlovable you might feel, a sister will show you that it just isn’t true.

  63. This is a generalized assuming article that breaks the hearts and frustrates the numerous sisters/siblings who have broken and/or terrible relationships with their sisters. Real life is not so simplistic. Sorry, not sorry.

  64. I’m so lucky to have my Shel Bel as my sister. Our late night talks, wearing the same outfits, arguing with each other, agreeing with each other, puzzles in the dark, same laugh, cherished moments, having each other’s back!  Love Yas Sister!

  65. My sister is the best she always has my back no matter what! She makes me feel good about my self and she helps me understand something if I need help with it! 

  66. I have an interestingly different experience with my two sisters. I’m the middle so I have an older and a younger. My younger sister and I are so close (or at least I think so), I stood up to our dad when he was talking down on her and made her cry but I diverted his unkind attention toward me instead so that little sister could escape and then I’d hug her and not let go even as she stood at the bathroom sink to blow her nose and wash her tears away. Whereas with my older sister, she and I couldn’t even stand each other. I practically used to be her shadow back in high school and under but after that, I noticed more and more that she hated my guts no matter how nice I try to be toward her and I don’t know why. So my opinion on this is that it all just depends on each individual bond.

  67. Jessica Jones

    I have 3 amazing sisters and 6 amazing sister-in-laws!!! I love them all for different reasons and wouldn’t trade them for anything. My 3 sisters and I got into lots of trouble trouble up but had fun and were always there for each other through the good and bad. Don’t know where I’d be in life without them ❤️

  68. I have 3 children, two are girls.  All three of my children are close.  My two daughters are 8 years apart
     (28 & 19) and have always gotten along amazingly well especially now that they are both adults.  They are best friends and do pretty much everything together. My youngest is the godmother to my oldest’ daughter.
    Seeing them together makes me wish I had a sister.   They both have great friends but nothing comes close to the sister/friend bond they have.  
    Seeing how close they are melts my heart! 

  69. I Don’t know where I would be without my sister’s… They’ve always played a huge role in my life… For sure my best friends… Not afraid to Corrert me & always able to congratulate me if do…. I couldn’t picture my life without my two Big Twin Sisters…. If ever Letting them down would definitely be a massive heartbreak..
    We’ve share most moments of our lifes together & I do depend on their strength @ times to get me through! I don’t have kids, but they do & just knowing they came from them makes me always wanna be the best I can for them… I love being an Aunt!! I love being a sister… This article I’ve actually found truth in because I need my sister’s….

  70. Marcia Schoonover

    I miss my sister! I left for college when she was just 4. It was hard, as we had been roommates for 3 of those 4 years. She’s grown now with a daughter of her own, but halfway across the country, so I rarely get to see them. Visited for two weeks this summer, but it wasn’t nearly enough time!!! I miss all of my niece’s activities and milestones. Having 3 siblings didn’t protect me and my first brother from getting divorced, but my sister and younger brother seem to be doing fine with their relationships.

  71. It is the greatest thing in the world to have a sister, they look after you even when you don’t want them to!! They are always there for you through everything you go through in life and always give advice that you should probably take, but, don’t always! Having a sister is about the best gift in life anyone could want or have!!! 

  72. Lauren lyzen

    My sister Rachel Walter’s has got me through the hardest times in my life. More like a mom then a sister. Her kids are like my kids. My son is like her son shes unbelievably amazing.

  73. She makes me laugh. She gets all my references and genuinely finds them funny. She notices everything I notice. She knows when I’m scared. She understands why I am. She knows what makes me comfortable and what doesn’t. She remembers the strangeness and the beauty of our childhood. She listens. She always has my back But, most importantly, she loves me unconditionally. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me.

  74. My sister Marlo is the best sister ever for all these 7 reasons plus many more! Having her by my side during these past 4 years while our brother battled cancer then later passing  from it has literally saved  me. I don’t know what I would have done or would do today without her By my side during this very difficult excruciating time. Family love is forever.

  75. My sister Rebecca is the most absolute best friend in the world!! I would not be who I am without her!! She completes me!! 

  76. I’m lucky enough to have 1 sister and she is my best friend! I would do anything for her and I would be lost without her. 

  77. My sister was all this and more. My second mom, my little sister/daughter, my advocate, my true friend, unconditional love, the best times of my life were when I was with her. We laughed until we cried, talked on the phone for hours. We got in bad fights but forgave eachother so quickly it would shock the rest of the family I called her at my saddest darkest moments and she was there. Never have I felt such unconditional love. We helped eachother in our hardest times, we both have what we had when we had nothing. She is an angel and she changed my life forever. She was the greatest blessing of my life.

  78. I didn’t get my best friend until after 8 brothers. Maria is the most precious gift, other than my 3 children, that I’ve ever been blessed with. I thank God for her always!

  79. Ronda Bemmels Hess

    I have three sisters, the second oldest passed away three years ago. She had ALS I miss her a lot. My oldest sister has Dementia and I miss her as well. My youngest sister next to my husband has turned into my second best friend! Love my sisters more than chocolate! ❤️

  80. I was really interested in this article but when I read it I realized that None of these are true for me and my sister.

  81. My sister Julie is the best and I don’t know where I would be without her in my life! She has always been there for me and talked me off the ledge on many occasions! She has also always been my biggest fan and makes sure to show it in how she celebrates my birthday every year! She is also the one who has made me an Aunt and that has been the best gift ever! She is an amazing Mom and I admire her every single day! I love you Jewels…I’m beyond blessed that God gave me you as my sister ❤

  82. My Sister, Jayme, and I are close. She moved to CO when my hubby and I and kids did and brought our Mom here, too. She’s a few years older than I am, but she’s been there through thick and thin. I wouldn’t have it any other way! 

    I love you, Jayme. 

  83. I had 4 sisters,but 2 passed away.We were all close.I hang out with one more than the other,but I love each one equally.We had a wonderful mother who taught us how to love

  84. My sister and I have pulled each other from some very dark places in our lives. We always have each others back 100%. When one of us had a broken heart, the other’s heart breaks for the other. When someone says or does something negative to one of us, the other is right there ready and willing to fight the battle with the other. My sister is my best friend in tbe world and I cannot imagine my life without her.

  85. I love, miss, and cherish my sister’s more than anything in the world…they are always there for me no matter what, they make me laugh, they always lift me up, and listen to me when I cry…there’s nothing better than having a sister, and I am sooooooo lucky I am bless with two!!! The only thing better is our mom, we all three love, admire, and of will ALWAYS treasure our mom!!! (Besides the fact, she gave us life!!!!!!!) ❤️

  86. I have 3 sisters.  One passed two years ago in an accident.  I miss her so much.  My partner in crime lol.  I love her so much.  I don’t know how I could survive without the other two.  If you have a sister tell her u love her everyday.  You never know God’s plan

  87. I wish I could attest to this! Reading this and the comments below have made me weep. I have a one and only one sister…however I do wish I had more! The one sister I have is 9 years older than me. Even being that much older she could be a great friend, someone I could talk to about anything, not judge me or ridicule me for my mistakes in life, the one who builds me up when I feel like I’m on the bottom of the sea…but no. She is haste full, ignorant, judge mental and cold hearted towards me. My brother on the other hand, who is 3 years older than her, she would stop anything to be there for him, do ANYTHING for him,  when I was sick and in ICU for a year she showed up but made sure everyone knew she took the time out of her precious day to be there. I was just 21 and in the hospital for a year my even bigger P.O.S. Brother never came to see me and never checked by calling either! But anyhow my sister then moved me in with her and her family for about 6 months, she made everyone and their mother believe she was taking care of me everyday and spending all this time helping me get back to me when in reality her mother-in-law was the one who was there every single day no matter what. She is the one who helped feed me and get my meds and iv going and such NOT my sister! 

    Glad for everyone else who has the amazing sister/s I am jealous! I do envy you! Keep them near and dear and close to you always!

  88. I adore my baby sister! She is my truest, always loyal to me and as a family in general, she may get fire breathing mad at me from time to time but it is all because she loves me so dang much!! 
    I am the oldest of us 3 but I am the one that looks up to my baby sister and brother they are the role models in my life!! ❤️

  89. Oh my goodness all of these are so true and I’m so thankful for my twin sister! Oh boy did we fight and like gangster’s fo sho!! LoL love you sis!! ❤️❤️❤️

  90. Nancy Tocher

    My sister is the best in the entire world.  There are a million reasons I can say this but the one that is at the top of the list is this:
    In 2012 I was diagnosed with breast cancer which had gone into my lymph nodes.  I was told by my oncologist that if I could possibly take time off of work I would probably want to because of the nasty side effects I would be experiencing during chemo.  Unbeknownst to me, my sister, Ann Sciabarrasi, told her boss she was going to take the summer off so she could care for me.  My husband was working crazy hours & had a difficult time dealing with all of this so I pretty much moved in with her & her husband & she took care of me both physically & spirituality.  I am eternally grateful to both her & her husband, David for their unselfish sacrifice.  They represent the hands & feet of Jesus.

  91. When I was growing up my parents got divorced. My sister was like a second mom to me and really helped raise me. Her and I are best friends and I feel so thankful to have her. She really shaped me into the person I am today! 

  92. She is honest with me. She will tell me things that I may not want to hear but need to hear to put things into perspective. 

  93. Marcia Brown

    I am very lucky to have five sisters.  We have made it a tradition to have an annual sister reunion for the past 28 years or so lasting at least 3-4 days each time.   It has not always been easy. Part of our reunions have been devoted to working on our relationships.  I love the support and care that we share for one another and the shared history and understanding.  I am the oldest of the sisters so I feel like my younger sisters help keep me young!  

  94. Glee Spurlock

    I have five sister. We have each taken diverse paths but one thing remains costant, we love care and watch out for each other. Always.

  95. Sandra Secosky

    My sister is just awesome!! She tells things the way they are, doesn’t sugar coat anything!! She is a great cook! She will always be my older sister… can’t say her age( well I won’t) she still has that little girl inside her and it’s so much fun to watch and listen to. She has the best smile and gives the best hugs. She is not afraid to be who she is! This makes her more beautiful! I love my sister with all my heart! My only sister! She is the best!!

  96.  There is nobody better than my sister Mary, 
    I love her so much I would die without her!
    ✝️♥️ She is absolutely the best !!!

  97. My sister and I have shared together great sorrow. She has always been there for me, if I have Dr. app. no matter the situation I know I can depend on her as she does me.

  98. Sandy Thompson

    Throughout my life my older sister has always been there for me. Fighting my corner and standing up for me against anyone who has caused me any harm/grief/anxiety.
    We now live in different countries and I really miss her but, in these days of advanced technology I can see and speak to her often and so look forward to he times we can meet and spend quality time together.

  99. peggy A strickland

    She was always there for me when we were growing up in a childhood filled with abandonment issues.All we could depend on was each other, I love her to the moon and back.

  100. Connie Tschantz

    I like #5 also and I have the BEST MOST BEAUTIFUL SISTERS IN THE WORLD !!!!!! THANK YOU LORD

  101. Susan E. Welker

    I don’t know what I would have done without my sister when my beloved mother passed away. She was the only one who truly knew how I felt. We’ve become closer because we lean on each other since Mom is gone. Miss my mom forever but love my sister unconditionally.

  102. I lost both my sister’s one in 2012 and one 2018 and I am lost without them they were my sounding board and they died too young and I still cry when I think of them it’s true they are your best friends

  103. Sisters are part of you…they feel yr pain…your happiness…your lonliness… the love and connection is forever and beyond…its a circle . never ending ❤❤❤❤ never broken

  104. My sister shares a happy history of memories with me! She is a fun and bubbly personality.   I have always been extremely proud of her.  She is beautiful and smart.  I know she has taught me about loyalty and protectiveness because of how much I love her!  I pray she knows how important she is to me. I really want her to know.

  105. Nobody understands my “fun” like my sister. My daughter does. We laugh uncontrollably and there are few people one can do that with. Who else really knows your history? But a brother? 

  106. I was lucky enough to have two sisters, but lost my younger sister two years ago to cancer . My younger sister was always my little buddy growing up. She truly always was there for me and my kids. We had a plan to do all these things together as we got older. Sadly… the plans changed. But we did make many memories that are so precious to me now.  Thank God there were three of us and my other sis and I can still have each other. 
    Life is so very short, don’t put anything off!

  107. There are 4 of us sisters, very different But so much alike. We are all BFFs. Can’t imagine life without them. We laugh, advise, cry, fuss together but mostly laugh  Teresa,Dawn and Angelia

  108. My sister TC has become one of my best friends. She’s always had my back. I miss her. I love her. I admire her strength in dealing with things herself AND in accepting help from others. We have become better friends as the years go by, and I won’t be without her in my life.

  109. I have 3 biological sisters 1 cousin who has only brothers and a friend since grade school who has only 1 brother. I love them all dearly all in a different way. All of them have made me me so furious and yet so delighted I could just burst. I have watched them grow into awesome mothers. J love their children as my own and would do anything for any of them at a moment’s notice.

  110. I absolutely love my sister Ronda a. Adrian. She could never be replaced. She is my sounding board and helps me with anything I ask for.

  111. My sister has always been there for me. A second mom , a great listener , my bff! Grateful she took time off to come be with me for my breast cancer surgeries. She was my nurse during that time to help me .. God blessed me with an amazing forever sister. 

  112. My sissy ROCKS. She helped me when I was little to learn what she was learning in school. She has always been my leader, my teacher. She has no idea how much I’ve always appreciated and admired her. I’ve let her down several times, but she’s never let me down. The BEST BIG SISSY EVER!!!

  113. Nichole Rowland calhoun

    My sister has always be my sounding board and still is. She also knows how to keep calm and keep my crazy in check  by calming down! My sister knows if anyone messes with her well let’s just  say they will have a handful of me to reckon with! I love my sister Neisha more than the air I breathe! I couldn’t live this life without her now that our mother is gone she kinda is like my mom too now! Love her to the infinity of the universe ! 

  114. Nichole Rowland Calhoun

    All that is so true minus divorce statistics but my sister is my sounding board she does know how to keep my crazy in check she’s amazing woman n role model I thank my sister Neisha for ever blow out we ever had and standing by me when I had nothing left I love her more than air I breathe !

  115. It dosent day, which sister, because I have eight sisters. The one sister who is one year older than me, we are not close at all. My oldest sister, were 20 years apart, and her upbringing is so much different t than mine. I’m a baby boomer and she is……..I don’t know what the 40’s were called. And the other six , let’s just say, they all have their own issues and beliefs. So, I don’t agree with this article. Sorry. Oh, and I’m the youngest of the nine girls.

  116. Katherine Watson

    She is my best friend. I know I drive her crazy sometime but without her in my life would be very lonely. We laugh at the dumb stuff that we have done. Sisters are special.

  117. Martha Gustavson

    I had 3 older sisters and I can honestly say that I am who I am because of them. I would do anything for them and vice-versa. I have lost two already and miss them so very much. They were and always be the best friends I’ll ever know. Thank you God for putting them in my life. 

  118. Jackiedepaoli@ Hotmail.com

    My sister Joyce is honestly the best person I know. And because sisters are competitive, I work hard to be the best person I can be, just to keep up with her.

  119. I love my sister with all my heart. I can’t imagine life without her. She is and always will be my best friend. I would give her the world if I could. We share everything.❤️❤️❤️

  120. Avis R. Rader

    I always looked up to and admired my older sister, Alice. I was her “baby” when I was growing up. She taught me a lot of things, how to dress, wear makeup, and she was always there for me. I love her, and she is the only sibling I have left to share my heart with.

  121. Paula Briggs

    My sister is a very independent, strong, intelligent individual & I absolutely can not imagine life without her. She was born when I was 8 1/2 years old & there’s just the two of us; I am now 70 & she’s 62. She has inspired & encouraged me. My life has definitely been better with her in it! I love her dearly.

  122. I have 4 sisters. Three older and one younger. I’m closest to the 2 closer to my age. I can tell my sisters everything. We argue but we always make up. No one knows you and has your back like a sister. I feel sorry for people who don’t have a sister. They are the best. 

  123. I have one and she is my best friend. She has always believed in me and encouraged me to pursue my dreams. Best gift ever is having her for a sister.

  124. Michelle decarlo

    I have three sisters and I cant image my life without them. In Feb of this year my oldest sister died she was like my mom. My mom passed 4 years before that. And when my sister died there was a big hole in my heart. She was always the go to sister
    Always looked after me there where six of us. I want to tell her Something and I say gee her not here she has gone to heaven. My sister was a fighter battled cancer for 27 years and kicked cancers butt. I will always have her by my side in heaven.

  125. Peggy Henderson

    My sister Robin is the most generous kind hearted hard working person I know. She is great at crafts and cooking. I can’t imagine living without her

  126. All of these things are true of my sissy. I cannot survive without her. If I ever feel lonely or sad or want to isolate, she is the one person who can lift me up and dig me out. My heart is sad for anyone who doesn’t have a sister. She is my lifeline and is “Jesus with skin on” to me.

  127. I’m busy mourning the death of my beloved pet. I called my sister to tell her the news and she cried with me. My life would not be the same without my sister. I love you Cheri so so much!!!

  128. I am very fortunate to have two sisters that have traits of our parents. Sadly we lost both parents last year within a month apart. They have helped comfort me and I hope I have done the same. 
    Even as a youngster both sisters acted like a mom to me, they included me, fed me and fought for me. I love them both dearly and if they hurt I hurt. Love you Missy and Julie. 

  129. I LOVE ALL 3. Momma always lined us up for pictures in order….Cheri, Rena, Judy, and Lori…and our dear Mama. We have survived together through storms of doubts, divorce, joys…. we traveled through trials, moves, jobs, and marriages, some winners, some losses. We chose Christianity. We chose positivity… We have lost our dear mama… but the 4 of us sisters have stayed within driving distance… close enough for holidays, births, and family reunions. Our children k ow each other…our houses often full of laughter and many, .any friends who visited often. Our house was Grand Central Station. Our parties on a dime were legendary. We are still close tho we are retired now. Mama is gone. But the sisters…. we stand, we will love each other forever.

  130. Edith Ballard

    OMG! I have 6 crazy ! I have a sister for every crazybitch you have ever met!  All of my sisters have an amazing strength or 2 or more as well as weakness and with that said we are super women! Just saying! I love them all!!

  131. My sister is AWESOME… ( PAMMY) .. .she is always there to help me and talk with me… and I am talking hours and hours of marathon talking….. she is non judgemental and so down to earth- when she speaks you have to listen … her life experience and love is so amazing and real. I love my sister !!!!! BEST SISTER AWARD 🙂 yay me !!!! lol 561-523-6271 Lizz Zilinsky

  132. I am the happy sibling of 4 AWESONE sisters…ok, well, 3 actually…. We live far apart but have for the last 16 years gotten together for visits at each others hones or other places of interests. Every year we have a blast..get on each others nerves..swear NEVER TO DO THIS AGAIN…then plan for the next one. My life is ONLY complete because of them.

  133. Judith Pittenger

    My sister and I are eight years apart and in two different states. We are both widows now and have ” reconnected,” and it is great. We talk daily and do sister road trips…next trip in just nine days! So thankful for her.❤

  134. Louisa Maartens

    I have a twin sister. I agree. All the reasons above is what makes my sister great. If all else fails, I don’t go to google, I talk to my sis x

  135. Stephanie Timberlake

    My sister is my best friend, confidant, partner in all crimes (good and bad) and my entire world. I would be lost and much less of a person without her. I love her very much!

  136. Such a well written and accurate article! My sister Amanda is brilliant, one in a million! She encompasses all of what you mentioned (to me) but to a greater level than most. I can only hope my daughter is blessed with a baby sister, can’t imagine my life without one!

  137. My younger sister, Mary, followed me everywhere, so, I would sing to her, Mary had a little lamb whose fleece was white as snow and everywhere Mary went , the Lamb was sure to go. Mary was the sweetest and kindest person I have ever known. She was gracious and giving to everyone. She supported me in all of my endeavors and even more than my husband or our parents. She was the Pillar that I clung to when everything around me would fall apart. My sister was killed by a MSSA Staph infection from Barnes Jewish Hospital ER on June 21. 2019. The tears won’t stop flowing even though she is now with the Mary of our Lord. Sisters are blood and come before all others.

  138. My sister and I are 5 years apart. I was more of a second mom, and I think that’s s why we are not close. Two very different people. One ultra responsible, one very much the opposite. Makes me sad, and I don’t know how to fix it.

  139. It’s awesome to see not all sisters are nasty. Your comments somewhat restore my faith in family. Guess its not suppose to be my reality tho. I thought my sister was my best friend ever, had my back and was always there for me. Lol turns out she’s a backstabber. Helped ruin my marriage by taking to my ex behind my back. Stabbed me in back when our mother passed away and in the end stole thousands of dollars from me.
    Lmao … ohhhh yeah … they’re just bloody lovely!!!

  140. My sister is 11 years older than me. She has always been like a second mom to me. She is there no matter the day, time, or situation. She is like a second mom to my 3 boys now. We fight and make up in the same sentence. She is always there to give me advice when I need it whether or not I want to hear it or not. I’m not sure what u would do without her!

  141. Judith Marilyn Andrich

    My sister is loving, encouraging and so very supportive. She loves the Lord and is soooo much fun.

  142. I drive my sister crazy at times I’m opinionated stubborn a little crazy but I have been there for her no matter what. Sometimes a little to much i took on trying to be her mommy but always had her best interest at heart. But we have always complimented each other my strength are her weakness and her strength is my weakness. I could not imagine my life without my sister she’s my ride or die chick. I am very proud of the women and mommy she has become and she gave me the opportunity to be a aunt to a beautiful little boy who I adore and soon to be another little boy I can’t wait to meet (hes not born yet though). Shelly I love u with all my heart and I’m so thankful your my sister!!

  143. I love my sister beyond measure. The only person that loves me back unconditionally. My first brst friend and sure to be my last.

  144. Being with my sister gives me comfort. I love just hanging in her living room laughing, watching tv, petting , and eating something fun! Toasting & roasting. ♥️ Wish we got to hang w/ our sweet sis in AL.  Love her so dearly too ♥️

    1. Patty Barnes

      My sister was my bestfriend.When i lost her i truly lost a part of my heart.Noone knew me like her.And she never judged me.Her pineapple cake was the best and she loved my meatloaf.We had a special bond that will always be in my heart and soul.Untill we meet again Sis

  145. My sister is only 18 months younger than I am. It felt like we were truly one unit growing up. We started having our own lives in high school and into adulthood, but that bond has never been broken. Time and distance have changed our lives, but she is still that one person who cuts through my bullshit faster than anyone and reaches deeper into my heart. Sisters are the best! ❤️❤️❤️

  146. Barb Dovell-Andreas

    My younger sister has always looked up to me. I know that. However I hope she knows that I have known that she is the one person who has always had MY back. She is my sounding board, my backer and we can always have those hilarious laughing spells talking about our childhood oh and even about things recently. My SEESTER as we have called each other for years now, is someone who loves deeply with all of her heart. I love her!!!

  147. MICHELLE PENAFLOR

    My Dad once said be nice to your sister one day she’ll be your best friend. It’s interesting because my sister to me is more than a best friend. She is like my whole family in one person. We have shared everything together and although we are very different we share the same core values, we have each others back, and are fiercely protective of each other. I was to choose someone to be my sister I would choose her again and again everyday no question.

  148. My sister is a trip. She is very intense amd passionate. We can disagree about almost anything! I love her children like they are my own and feel the same pride in them. She feels the same about mine and also my grand children. When the chips are down no one can feel your anquish like your sister. It is almost like two sisters one heart. Unless you want to go to the mattresses do not mess with her. It doesn’t matter how large and powerful you think you are….take cover… I thsnk God every day for my loving brother in law and her precious children.

  149. I love my 2 sisters they are my best friends. Everything in this passage is true. They are my go to. I go to them for advice on everything in my life because they won’t sugar coat anything they will tell me nothing but the honest truth. I can trust them with my life my kids lives I know they have nothing but love for us as I do for them and their kids. I miss my best friends we live apart but we need to get together ASAP to rejuvenate our souls that fuel up on all the love, laughter and kindness that we could possibly have. My sisters Paij Crocker and Carey Lewis #arethebest!

  150. The comments reflect Our sister relationship. Being the eldest was fun! She REALLY listened to me, at least until she became a teenager. Lol. We still enjoy sharing Time together and would be happy to help Anytime! LOVE her ❤️ VERY much. B

    1. My sisters are women I am close to who have other parents. God gave them to me.

    2. I didn’t have a sister or a brother but the Lord made certain I had plenty of sisters, too.

    3. I have 2 sisters.  One is amazing at listening and giving advice and knowing me.  2 years apart but people thought we were twins when we were little and even in our 20s.  The other sister is 5 years younger and lives 5 mins away.  I love being an auntie to all of their kids!  But my relationship with my baby sister is tense.  I know she has my back in the long run but it makes me sad that I don’t have the same kind of relationship with her as I do with the sister who lives 13 hours away.

  151. My sister is my mentor in many ways. She is is compassionate, caring problem solver which I has been a lifesaver for me in more ways than I can say. Always there when I need her. Rain, shine sleet or snow…literally! Lol! I love you Kathy .

  152. I have two sisters who are truly my best friends in the world they always have my back and I always have theirs. No matter what happens we are there for each other! Our love knows no boundaries God Bless I love them

    1. I have 2 sisters also.  Love them to the moon and back. I also had the privilege of having 2 daughters of my own – 18 months apart – super close.  I know they will both ok when I’m not around anymore – because of their love for each other.  I also have a brother who is like no other

  153. What makes my sister a “badass got your back gal,” are many and long qualities but first…she this article to me as a great reminder of the many unsaid things we do for one another to support and live one another.

  154. I have only one sister shes younger than me but by far the mature you more sensible you see. I dont see her often nore talk everyday. But when ever i discuss a promlem with her she helps it go away. There arent the corrects words i can find to select and say that describes what she means to me in every single way. But mess with this girl and i promise you for sure you have more on your plate than u could ever enjore. How far would i go for her well id die thats for sure always rember this need i say anymore xx

    1. My baby sister, she’s 32, and she’s my rock. We fought like cats and dogs when we were little. Years later, I’m now 300 miles away from her. I so value our long conversations and verbal flashbacks, and our bickering, lol. She’s become so wise and kind, and has taught me so much. I’m lucky to have her in my life.

  155. My sister is 2 years younger than I, but wr ginish each others sentences, we know what each other are thinking by just looking at one another. She is my greatest asset in this life, sisters are truly blessings.

  156. My sister although we have our differences. She never judges me for my decisions in life. She’s easy to talk to and understanding and always has good advice even when I don’t want it.

  157. I have 3 sisters and now wouldn’t trade them for anything. Lost the oldest to cancer almost 1 year ago and it still hurts, but she will always be my older sister no matter that she is in heaven now

    1. Christina Reaves

      Lucky me! I got 3 sisters and 3 step sisters. This article is so true! I love them all!!

  158. Kathy Bencsik

    I had 6. The one who nurtured us most passed away. But I can attest this is all true. I don’t know where I would be without my sisters. <3